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Cougar Mania

Cougar Mania

Date: Oct 26 2007

Themes: Pop Culture, Romance

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It’s a phenomenon that’s becoming more and more common. All across the United States, people are following the example of 44-year-old Demi Moore and her 29-year-old husband, Ashton Kutcher: Older women are pairing off with younger men.

The slang term for women in their late 30s or older who pursue men in their 20s or teens is cougar. It gets thrown around a lot these days. Watch Amanda tell Devan how someone actually had the nerve to call her a cougar.

Dialog

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Amanda

Amanda

Devan

Devan

Amanda:  So I went to the bar the other night and somebody had the audacity of calling me a cougar. Do you know what that is?

Devan:  Cougar? You mean like the older woman that likes to sleep with a younger man?

Amanda:  Yeah. Apparently that’s what it was and I was kind of offended by that.

Devan:  I don’t think you’re old enough to be a cougar.

Amanda:  I don’t think so either. I thought there had to be about 20 years difference of the girl and the guy.

Devan:  I think that’s about right. Doesn’t the woman have to be at least 40 to technically be a cougar?

Amanda:  I think so. And possibly married. And possibly with children. Yeah. So have you ever stopped to think about what the draw is from the woman to the man and the man to the woman in this case?

Devan:  Well, I think it’s because they’re both at their sexual peak.

Amanda:  I hadn’t really thought about that. So for a guy, what, 20-something?

Devan:  I’ve heard that a man’s sexual peak is 18 and a woman’s is 35.

Amanda:  Really? So I have two years to go…

Devan:  Maybe you should find an 18-year-old in the next couple of years.

Amanda:  Maybe! Like your brother, right? Not so much?

Devan:  Not so much.

Amanda:  Oh. Well it’s weird, because as a mother having a son, I’m not sure how comfortable I would be if he came home in high school and had a 40-year-old girlfriend.

Devan:  Yeah. You stay away from my brother.

Amanda:  Okay. Good to know. Note to self.

 

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Discussion

When Amanda went to the bar the other day, someone called her a cougar. Devan says that Amanda is too young to be a cougar and Amanda agrees. They agree that the ideal cougar is over 40, about 20 years older than her lover, possibly married and possibly a mother. Most cougars are also very predatory when it comes to securing their young prey. That’s why they’re named for large, wild cats.

Amanda asks Devan why she thinks older women are going for younger men and vice versa. She immediately responds that she thinks it’s because the male sexual peak is 18 while a woman’s is 35.

Devan’s brother sounds like a good young lover to Amanda, but Devan doesn’t like the idea of them together one bit.

Why do you think older women and younger men get together?

 

Comments

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joeandxms

China

Interesting lesson.Laughing

01:28 AM Jan 18 2008 |

Kiwijelly

Kiwijelly

Thailand

lol

05:10 PM Jan 17 2008 |

peterstudy

China

i want to make a lot friends .thanks

05:35 AM Jan 12 2008 |

shu'ayb

Somalia

the peak of men sexual arousan is about 22 year

as medical hypothesis indacating us so i believe that

 

04:44 PM Jan 10 2008 |

jr-k

Canada

Coolmy god…..Laughing

06:47 PM Jan 08 2008 |

syed414

Pakistan

I cant beleive in sexual peak for men and women for age.

04:02 PM Dec 23 2007 |

Hoteng

Bermuda

holle

 

01:35 PM Dec 23 2007 |

syed414

Pakistan

I am not sure about a woman in 35 and a man in his 18 on suxual peak. sexual peak starts over 18 for woman and 20 for a man but it lasts upto 60 if some one has a physically fitness.

04:34 AM Dec 23 2007 |

Hello_frankey

China

Love has nothing to do with age,if she loves him and he loves her,why not stay together?Just leave others talk. 

02:18 AM Dec 23 2007 |

gukamaoo

United States



   My name is miss doris,i saw your profile today and became interested in you and i will like to know more about you so that i will tell you whom am i and also send to you my picture for you to see me and communicate well,Plesae i will like you to email me back at my email address at () Please you mail to me will be highly appreciated and remember that colour or distance does not matter but love matters a lots in life..
  Remain Bless From Yours Loved One
      Miss doris.

07:42 PM Dec 21 2007 |

ravicbs

India

nice to meet you i realy need your help improving my speaking fluency.

11:52 AM Dec 19 2007 |

sandyjiang2008

China

I don't  agree this view , the world  need to realy love !

02:10 AM Dec 18 2007 |

nilsum

Turkey

the problemm is not to consider people situations who might be seen cougar,being with younger boys couldnt seem sexual demand,the other feelins may be important role such as fearing left alone

05:56 PM Dec 16 2007 |

chenhui215

China

it looks like a fun

02:56 AM Dec 16 2007 |

玉盘

China

How can I get into this class ,Idon'n know ,who can help me ,thank you !

02:21 AM Dec 16 2007 |

jjooy

jjooy

Syrian Arab Republic

hi how are you boys

i'm jalal from syria i would like to get to know you better  

lot's we  practicing learn english together

this my email  galliclover"hotmail.com

best regardes

jalal 

12:43 PM Dec 13 2007 |

livefor

Belgium

it"s interesting but i have done several wrong on this part 

10:44 AM Dec 13 2007 |

veena_lee

veena_lee

China

It is interesting to know about "couger"

09:15 AM Dec 10 2007 |

ranjeet999444

India

thats verry true….

04:46 PM Dec 07 2007 |

marco225

Cote D'Ivoire

if people get power to have sex until the end of their time i think year difference had to be put back away.

if women get her sexual peak at 35 or 70 and have the power to have love relationship,so let do it 

04:23 PM Dec 07 2007 |

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